I've had a friend that I've known for quite some time. And I never understood her reasoning in life. She is what I call a serial monogamous. I've known her 5 years and she has been engaged 3 times and this is not including the engagements prior to meeting her. Before one relationship ends, she already has another one started. "Playing house" always came before her friendships. They are moved in , in a blink of an eye. And every relationship is a ready made family. These guys are good to her and her daughter, but is this healthy for the little one?
I guess my main complaint is, that I would love to have her in my life but it always comes at her convenience. She has isolated herself from all her friends due to her need for a family unit. Why can't she balance out both? And what is this chronic need for always having a man in her life?
And maybe I sound a bit judgemental, but it gets old when your texts and calls become predictably dismissed.
There's been instances where she won't come and hang out when I invite her, but when one of her ex's is there, she didn't hesitate to get pretty and come on out. And mind you, this occurred while being in a relationship. It all just seems a bit fickle.
Am I wrong for keeping her at arms length? What's your thoughts?
Until next time,
Your go to girl
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