Wednesday, February 1, 2012

confidential vs confrontational

hello readers. ive been really busy lately and feel ive been neglecting my blog. so lets get things crackin! so i previously talked a bit about internet dating. well my romance i believe has come to an end. i had mentioned before that we knew a lot of the same people even though he lives in another state. well i made the mistake of telling him i had slept with one of his friends ( but this incadent happened over 2 years ago) . thats what i get for having no filter on my mouth. the last couple days since that was brought up, have been pretty silent on his part. sooo, im gonna assume, our internet romance is over.

to make a short story long, this friend that i slept with , we will call bob. 2 years ago or more me and bob used to be really good friends. ive known him since highschool. we would hang out and one night we had some drinks and decided that friend sex was a good idea. and it was until....

until bob, went to a party with his buddies and decided to tell everyone every little detail of what happened behind closed doors. and then eventually name dropped ...and there my buisness was, out in the open for everyone to know about. before my name was mentioned i was known as " being with a big girl isnt that bad."...excuse me mutha f*cker, your fat as shit. how dare you?

when i confronted bob, about his word vomit he denied it. if in fact you were my real friend, you would not have mentioned any of my private details to anyone. where is the respect for a lady, or better yet, one of your best friends. but to this day, everyone thinks that bob is just this wonderful person, a great friend...blah blah blah.

alot of people wonder why im such a hard judge of character. and this is one of the many reasons. im not gunna tell people well this is why ...because im not going to embarrass myself or him. i have fuckin respect.

after i confronted bob about this, i just wanted an explanation,...ANYTHING. he had no explanation. i never got an apology nor did he try to rekindle our friendship. and that probably hurt worse than his actual action. the way i take it our friendship really didnt mean a whole lot to him.

so to this day i ignore him and he ignores me. how sad. people are pretty inconsiderate of other people's feelings. ...well that is all.

until next time,
your go to girl
www.your-go.blogspot.com

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